We update these Community Resources regularly because the health & happiness of our community is our top priority.

STD testing locations

A list of community-approved places where you can be tested for STDs & STIs. We've found these places to be friendly to non-monogamists and sex workers.
How to tell your partner(s) you have an STD
Everything is going to be okay. Here is a great resource for how to structure that conversation, including scripts to follow. You can also inform partners anonymously.
Poly Happy Hour
Poly Happy Hour is a Bay area evening of friend-making and mingling for the non-monogamous and the people who love us. Meet some like-minded humans or come poly-curious to learn more about our love-infused lives.

NOTE: This group is public and could appear on your public Facebook profile.
SFBay Polyamory Events calendar
Public calendar of poly-focused events around the bay. These are mostly non-play events such as mixers, discussion groups, and support groups.
Bay area community BDSM events calendar
Public calendar of kink-friendly events around the bay. There are many events listed for every day!
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Struggling to find the words to mend a damaged relationship? We highly recommend mediation, and have had great success working with Clearing Conversations.
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Some icons used with attribution from the Noun Project. Condom icon by Oliviu Stoian. Calendar icon by Delwar Hossain. Polyamory icon by volunteers by MRFA. New Chat icon by Gregor Črešnar. Podcast Icon by Nate Eul. Mediation Icon by Gilbert Bages. Vagina Icon by Ben Davis.