public events

regular events

We host a number of public events for the young non-monogamous community to meet, mingle, & party! You can join our mailing list to get invitations in your inbox.

Open underground

Somewhere in a dark warehouse in SOMA, a flame flickers to life, a length of silk pulls taut, and a DJ plugs in — the Open Underground has begun. We’ve recently started this regular event series where you can dance with fire, flow and kink artists at one of Soma's most offbeat venues.  Join our mailing list for invites or check out our Facebook Page for the next event date.
Poly Happy Hour

Poly Happy Hour

Poly Happy Hour is a monthly, free event that takes place on the second Monday of every month in Oakland. 3 years strong, PHH brings together the Bay Area non-monogamous community, from long timers to those just thinking about exploring, for a night of no pressure mingling, friend-making and catching up. Join us, have a drink (or not) and a bite, and meet some amazing folks! Join our mailing list for invites or check out our Facebook Page for the next event date.